Is this normal dating behavior?

If the guy is still there after 3 months of no , believe me, he was not "just trying to bed you". I think this issue is yours, not the guys. How long is he supposed to wait to prove to you that he is sincere? Have you stated early in the relationship that you won't have unless married? Do you make-out with the guy, and get really really intimate, just not ? Why don't you want to make out or explain to him that you just are not interested in unless you are married? Your ethics are fine. There is nothing wrong with not having , as long as he knows the rules. The problem is your communication. You are "testing" him. You really should be fair and explain your beliefs in the first month and see if you and he are compatible. Good luck!