Cheap wedding planning? i am getting married in may 2009 in jacksonville fl.?

Doesn't your church have a social hall? How about the local lodges like Moose and Elks? You can get "corporate catering" for a lot less than $30 per person too. They set up chafing dishes of hot foods, buckets of ice, paper plates and cups, then come back later and transfer any leftover food to foil chafing dishes for you to take home and clean up the serving area.